A Story Of Passion: By Maria Daher

My name is Maria Daher. I am 16 years old. I am a judoka. I started judo in 2010. Judo has taught me several principals throughout the years: Courtesy – to be polite to others, Courage – to face difficulties with bravery, Honesty – to be sincere with your thoughts and actions, Honor – to do what is right and stand by your principles, Modesty – to be without ego in your actions and thoughts, Respect – to appreciate others, Self Control – to be in control of your emotions, Friendship – to be a good companion and friend.

In addition to the satisfaction or deception you get from winning or losing a fight, judo is a philosophy of optimally utilizing the powers of both body and mind.

I faced multiple criticisms as well as admiration for my perseverance as a female in martial arts like judo. We are now in the 21st century and society still looks at females as unqualified to succeed in any martial art but that needs should be changed. Us women need to mark our presence to reach the part of society we always wanted to have.
My personal experience has proven that women are able to reach and achieve multiple championships locally and internationally as well as getting a black belt.

My journey was also accompanied by days where I felt down with no motivation to continue especially after injuries or losing in competitions. However, the support that I got from family friends and coaches, as well as my determination, have made me what I am now.

In fact, I can assure you that when there’s a will there’s a way and I had the will to continue and improve myself for the better. But better sometimes means sacrifice. To achieve what I am now, I had to make many sacrifices and compromises like skipping many events, parties, and trips with friends or family.

Have you ever wondered what the secret is to make your dreams come true?
Some people would say that all you need to do is work hard ‘round the clock to achieve what you really want in life. Others think that it’s all about whom you know and using that connection to achieve success. Some feel that there are just people who are born lucky and get all the breaks. The truth is having a commitment means that you are willing to work hard despite the obstacles in your path in order to make your dreams a reality.

Maria Daher, Collège Sainte-Famille Française (Fanar)

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LAMSA note:

The same activities that are good for your physical health are as well good for your mental health and well-being. Practicing an activity, like sport, music , volunteering…are as well protective factors against smoking and substance use.